Backsliding is Like Sending God's Call to Voicemail
You know that feeling when your phone lights up with a name you’d rather not see? You already know the conversation will be uncomfortable—maybe challenging, maybe calling you out a little. So you do what any “responsible adult” does in that moment: you flip the phone over, pretend you didn’t see it, and tell yourself you’ll deal with it later. We don’t just do this with people. We do it with the deeper stuff too. You sense that nudge: You shouldn’t be here. You know this isn’t who you are. You can’t keep living like this. And instead of answering, you drown it out with noise—more work, more scrolling, more distraction. It’s not that you don’t hear. It’s that you don’t want to. Backsliding rarely looks like a dramatic press conference: “I, hereby, officially walk away from my faith.” It’s quieter. You stop praying as much. Church becomes optional. Old habits slip back in, and you start telling yourself, I just need some space. I just want to do what I want for a while. You might not...